Texting
Stop Texting Like Customer Support
Polite is not the same as attractive. Over-explaining kills tension.
Too many men text like they are resolving a support ticket. The tone is careful, the replies are long, and the energy is full of reassurance instead of direction.
Good texting keeps movement. It does not over-answer every line, apologize for existing, or explain the joke after the joke already died.
If the exchange keeps feeling flat, the issue is usually not mystery chemistry. It is usually pacing, tension, and whether you sound like you trust yourself.